As I sat in front of her in Koramangala MacDonald, I was speechless and had no idea about things to talk. I was not expected to perform better than this as it was my first time. In life when u reach a stage where you are not sure of things to speak, then its better to concentrate on other things. And there was MacVegie and French Fries attracting all my attention.
This is not the first time I am seeing her. Actually she is no stranger to me. I know her from my childhood days as she is a distant relative of mine. From last couple of week I have heard so many things about her from everyone in my family, that I could have easily claimed that I knew everything about her. Even though I have seen her from my childhood days, this meet was a very special one. This was something which was going to change course of my life. Here I was not expected to meet a distant relative but someone with whom I have already decided to spend next 50-60 years of my life.
Still Its bit difficult to digest that I am getting married even before my 26th birthday. One of my this year's resolution was that somehow I will convince my AMMA that I am not ready for marriage. But Now I have to accept that this resolution failed even before entering month of Feb and somehow my AMMA won by convincing me that I am ready for marriage. But two weeks after this defeat, Now I am very glad that My AMMA won this battle and I got a chance to meet this wonderful girl. Mom's are like that. They always know exactly what we need.
Now Its almost 2 months after that speechless meeting in MacDonald and I am getting a feeling that Life would have been so good if I could have met this girl bit early. I missed some one like her in my life from so many years. Life looks much complete now. Until and unless you meet someone special in life, you will never realize how badly you are missing that person in your life. Only when we meet this special person we will know that life can be much better and complete than what it was in past.
So slowly this marriage news broke out in friends and family circle. I should say this news spread in a linear way among friends and in a exponential way within family. So many people got curious because of my sudden marriage decision and ask this question all the time.
"Nitin, Is this a Love marriage or Arranged???"
I have only one answer for this, "Its Arranged cum DEEP LOVE".
Nitin
Amritha Says....
AMRITHA
Once in life time… !! Ahem ahem.. I must rephrase it as ‘first time in my life’ which became the last one.. J After a discussion within the families, I was told that he wants to meet me before taking any decision… I was dumbfounded.. I was not at all ready for marriage.. I was still thinking that there is still time.. And one day when I heard this .. I didn’t know how to respond… I too am newly experiencing all these.. My heart was saying, “Please give me some more time to think.. !”… It’s difficult to me either.. But somehow managed to gain confidence and agreed to meet.
Here comes the day.. The day we decided to meet… I had come to office and whole day was puzzled so as to what am I to begin speaking… As everyone say that if I start speaking I will have lots of things to say.. But, but, but, how to begin .. I was clueless… With all these feelings, finally I started from my office which is situated in Electronic City to Mc Donalds in Total Mall of Koramangala.. All the way I was only thinking of how to begin my conversation.. how how and how.. A big question mark… To divert my mind away from this I started listening to music..
Finally reached the place… The place where I am to meet and speak … Found him waiting for me.. Greeted each other and entered Mc Donalds.. To be frank, my hunger had died off.. J But still placed order and we started speaking.. It was dead silence around.. Both of us didn’t know how to start.. Then we started off with eating.. and my hatest cricket match was going on on TV.. So, he was comfortable watching the same.. It was me who was in a confusion.. L
Finally the time arose that we both shared our views, which was a good part… We spoke about our life, work, family, frenz… and did we speak something about C***H ….. ;) No.. Can’t tell that.. confidential…
But that was a memorable moment that took place in my life.. I have never told this even to him till date which I am jotting down here. My decision of getting married to Nitin was a perfect one… I have found a wonderful life partner!! Loving, Caring and adorable person indeed.J
